Well as it turns out we will not be doing respite care. The Foster Mom found someone else to care for baby boy that is closer to her. As far as baby girl is concerned she is doing so well. She is up to 7 pounds 3 ounces now. She was so confused with her nights and days but the last 3 nights have gone so well. Last night she actually had a 7 hour chunk of sleep, woke up and ate, and then slept another 4 hours. How fantastic is that? We are all soaking her in like a sponge. She is FANTASTIC!